In Gary Chapman’s 1995 book, “The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate,” he decodes the way people express love and theorizes that we tend to give love in the way we like to receive it. He describes five “Love Languages” and believes most of us express and receive love in a primary and a secondary way. When it comes to our pets, we can express and receive love in the same way we do with humans. Dogs, specifically, can give us the emotional and physical love and affection we so deeply crave. Many studies prove that owning a dog can stave off depression, prevent loneliness and isolation, and most of all, give us undeniable and unconditional love. The least we can do is love them in return, and give them the best life possible.

The Five Love Languages (for your Dog)

“Words of Affirmation” 

Does your dog wag her tail happily when you say “Good girl!” or “aren’t you a pretty pup!” in an excited or tender, soft voice? Most experts agree that dogs, while they don’t understand words, are sensitive to tone of voice. If giving verbal phrase or speaking sweet phrases to your dog lights up her world, this may be her love language. 

“Quality Time”

Does your dog wag her tail when you reach for the leash? Is she thrilled to play endless games of fetch with you outside in the fresh air? In this case, playtime and quality time will make your dog feel pampered and cared for. Every mindful moment spent together is an act of love, and you and your dog will therefore strengthen your bond of friendship and love. 

“Receiving Gifts”
Is your dog highly motivated by treats? Is getting a new squeaky toy the high point of his week? Although most dogs love receiving treats, some like it more than others. Please make sure treats and toys are made with safe, natural ingredients and ideally made in the USA. 

“Acts of Service”

If you have a genius pet, there might be a chance that their love language is acts of service. Animals that gladly do what you tell them speak this love language. These pets excel at agility classes and barely need any kind of treat or encouragement to perform commands. Or maybe you have a dog that is a service animal or an emotional support dog. These animals are givers, not takers. After all, pleasing you is its own reward.

“Physical Touch”

One of the more obvious love languages is physical touch. It’ll be clear your dog’s love language is physical touch when their favorite thing is belly rubs or an ear massage. They might even return physical affection by rubbing their torsos against your legs or offering you wet kisses. Lapdogs are definitely physical touch pets which can lower their stress levels. These animals need plenty of physical affection from you to feel loved. 

So what is your dog’s love language? There are a few websites that talk about a pet’s love language. For dog lovers, check out The American Kennel Club website that offers an online quiz HERE.